The first goal. The
first hit. The first date. The first kiss. All of these are important memorable moments
in one’s life. So is the first time
hunting.
My daughter has worked hard and grown strong enough to pull
back a bow. This may sound like that is
no big deal unless you try this yourself.
For a youth, pulling back 35 or more pounds means the opportunity to bow
hunt legally. For my daughter, who hates
the loud blast from the muzzle of a firearm, it means she finally gets to hunt.
Just prior to the season, she picked up the bow she
bowfishes with. She has hit a growth
spurt and I immediately noticed I needed to adjust the draw length (the distance
in pulling back a bow string). Rather
than tinkering with it, I grabbed the bow my oldest son uses and let her try
it. I did not inform her of the draw
weight (often referred to as the poundage of a bow; in North Carolina a
compound bow must have a draw weight of 35 pounds or greater). She gripped the bow, grabbed the string with
her right hand, and pulled back like a seasoned pro.
“Dad, how many pounds is this?”
“Let’s just say you can go hunting with me this year, Ju” I
responded.
“Really?” Excitement
was building in her like a teenager who had just received a text message from the
cute guy in school asking her out. By
the way, I need to inform all the cute guys that I am a pretty good aim, just
in case there are any ideas floating about.
“Yes Ju. Forty
pounds.” I could hardly finish the ‘pounds’
in the statement before she interrupted.
“FORTY! REALLY!” At this point she was kind of hopping /
jumping up and down in one spot. “When
do I get to go?!?”
So, in an instant, my years of tranquility with my only
hunting partners consisting of the peace of nature and a few mosquitoes were
history. I was about to adapt a new
partner. A partner who would likely be
texting, facebooking, tweeting, instagramming…maybe even doing a collage while
in the stand. Girls do make collages,
right?
The second weekend of the season Julianne had dance on the
Friday night. At least I would get that
one night in! Short story, I saw five
deer. They were a little too far away
but while sitting in the stand I was able to pick a tree closer to the entrance
to the field where the deer were moving for a stand location.
Saturday was a little different. Julianne had dance that day as well (what
else do expect from girls?) so we would be hunting together that afternoon and
evening. We picked up some camo for her
(she had a Batman t-shirt and blue jeans for the hunt…girls!) and headed to the
field.
We were hunting from a two person ladder stand. I took her bow and quiver, as well as my
small bag where I keep my hunting goodies and tied them to one end of a haul
line. I had her go up first. I tossed the other end of the haul line up to
her so I could get our gear up after I climbed the stand.
After settling in, I pulled our gear up. I hung my bag on a small broken limb behind
us. “It sure would be nice if we had
some type of hook Daddy.”
That is what my bag is for!
She may have had the Batman shirt on earlier, but my hunting bag is like
Batman’s utility belt. I screwed a
couple of hooks into the tree, changing the location of my bag to one of the
hooks and hanging the quiver of arrows on the other. Then I went over where the deer were likely
to appear, what ranges different trees and patches of grass or barren ground
were, and what pins to use on her sight depending on where the deer would show. I also explained to her quietly that I would
hold my hand out prior to the shot and point on my hand where she would need to
aim at the deer depending on its angle to us.
Then we waited.
After awhile, I asked where her iPhone was. “I left in the truck. We are hunting, so I felt like I wouldn’t
need it.”
Wow! That caught me
off guard. I pulled my phone out of my
bag and checked the time.
A little later I checked once again. Then I checked the scores of the college
football games. Then I took a picture of
her in her camouflage. Then I posted it
to Instagram. Then I sent a tweet about
hunting with my daughter on her first hunt she could actually participate
in. Then…well you get the picture.
As the sun settled behind the wood line, she became more and
more nervous. We knew this was the time
when the deer would show. At one point
her knees were wagging back and forth like a puppy’s tail after getting hold of
a ball covered in peanut butter. I asked
if she was worried. “Only about hitting
the right spot. I want it to be a clean
shot.”
Wow! Yet another good
answer.
I checked the time again.
I scanned the wood line. I
explained to her to look for movement not colors. But they just would not show. We tied everything off on the haul line and
lowered the gear and exited the stand.
We walked back to the truck and put the things away. We were staying there overnight (it is my
in-laws property and home) so we went inside to a fresh hot meal that was
waiting for us.
“How was the hunt Julianne?” my mother-in-law asked her.
“It was fun even though we didn’t see anything. But you know Daddy, he was texting and
tweeting and taking pictures the whole time!”
Wow! Didn’t see that
one coming!
They are also confusing, and trying to get a girl to do anything you want is difficult. Whether it's how she feels, how much she weighs or how someone spoke to her at work, a seemingly endless amount of subjects can block a girl's attitude from excitement.
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